misunderstanding between one person to another when communicate a message is call barriers in communication.
somehow, are you notice what you are trying to say is hurting other people?

there are no right or wrong 'as long as shariah compliance' in this grateful world that has been create by The All Mighty Allah S.W.T.
After all you been through, after all people come & go, there is two things that we never leave behind;
1. we are always making mistake
2. forgetful we are

be as humble as we can as long as we are call human